At one point I was living in the pastors home for awhile after I was released from the hospital following being burned.
On Thanksgiving Day Cleo and Felix were also invited to eat Thanksgiving Dinner at their home. They knew of the allegations. It was particularly known concerning the allegations against Felix because he had also been accused of attempting to molest another little girl from the Christian school.
I was scared. Why had Cleo and Felix been invited?
Not only was I afraid of Cleo, but I knew Cleo would most likely be on her best behavior in front of Mrs. Pastor’s wife.
I was terrified of what Felix would do if he had any opportunity at all.
I was not only scared for myself, I was scared for the pastor and the pastors wife two daughters who were minors at the time. I knew Felix would try to do something to myself and to those girls.
Felix is the ultimate predator.
I followed the two teenage pastors daughters around as if I were glued to their backs. Being teenage girls they were more than a little annoyed that they couldn’t shake their tale.
During the middle of dinner Felix excused himself to the restroom. A few moments later Felix calls out that there wasn’t any toilet paper.
I knew what he was planning. He was planning to “accidentally” expose himself and worse to which ever unfortunate girl was chosen to fetch a roll of toilet paper.
I volunteered. I thought I would have a better chance at avoiding Felix since I had become accustomed to his tricks.
I retrieved a roll of toilet paper from the hall closet. And I attempted to quickly toss the roll inside the bathroom door.
Felix was too quick for me. He grabbed my wrist and pulled me into the bathroom with him. He told me to perform oral sex and threatened me….if I said a word, the pastor would kick me out of his home right away.
Within about a week or so, I was back on the farm with Cleo and Felix. At the time, I thought the pastor had somehow found out, but that wasn’t the case. It turns out the reason Cleo and Felix were invited for Thanksgiving was so Cleo could “restore” her relationship with me as it was the plan all along I was to return to the farm.
The two daughters didn’t know until many years later that little Fifth-Grade me was hell-bent on protecting them. Although they remember Cleo and Felix being invited for that Thanksgiving dinner, When I told them as an adult, their eyes glazed-over as I recounted what happened. I tend to think they still do not believe or comprehend what happened that Thanksgiving Day 1976.
To be honest, considering what I know the pastor knew, it is a baffling mystery why Felix allowed to be within ten miles of the pastors own young daughters.
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A Public Statement Concerning Sexual Abuse in the Church of Jesus Christ by Godly Response to Abuse in the Christian Environment (G.R.A.C.E.).